{"id":1131,"date":"2007-07-29T03:33:00","date_gmt":"2007-07-29T03:33:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.paulryburn.com\/wordpress\/?p=1131"},"modified":"2007-07-29T03:33:00","modified_gmt":"2007-07-29T03:33:00","slug":"20","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/2007\/07\/29\/20\/","title":{"rendered":"20"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Been sitting here trying to type up my experiences at my 20-year high school reunion this weekend.  I keep typing partial paragraphs and then not liking them and hitting Delete.  So I&#8217;m going to keep this brief:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; One of the high points was running into a girl who, like me in high school, tended to keep to herself.  She didn&#8217;t go to the 10-year reunion (I did go), thinking, what&#8217;s the point.  And then in her 30s (like me) she blossomed and became totally happy and fulfilled&#8230; and she just gave off the BEST energy.  It was great to talk to her.  And it was interesting because we took two different paths &#8211; she got married, had a kid and found her ideal job; I moved to Downtown Memphis and found an incredible group of friends\/social network and started a blog.  But even though our paths were different, I could recognize it in her, and she in me.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; MySpace is awesome.  From 1997 to early 2007, our class had virtually no contact with each other.  Then around March of this year, a member of the class put up a MySpace page and 40 of us added the &#8220;Class of &#8217;87&#8221; page as a friend.  Now we can all stay in touch with each other, and it will carry on beyond the reunion.  I think that&#8217;s really cool.  I have a lot of friends over 30 who can&#8217;t understand why they would want to be on MySpace&#8230; trust me, you&#8217;re missing out.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; As thrilled as I was to see everyone, it was rather surreal being in a room full of people where the factor that tied us all together is that we&#8217;re all within about a year of each other in age.  It was a bit weird because one of the main lessons I&#8217;ve learned over the past 20 years is that age doesn&#8217;t matter.  I have friends within weeks of my own age; I have friends in their 50s; I have friends who haven&#8217;t turned 21 yet; and all points in between.  Age is only a big deal if you make it a big deal.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; To close&#8230; to my classmates who found this blog&#8230; welcome, and stay in touch.  I&#8217;d like to say that most of my posts are more intellectual than the one from last night (in which I mentioned panties), but no, last night&#8217;s was pretty typical.<\/p>\n<p>I hope to be back in Memphis tomorrow by 2 at the latest.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Been sitting here trying to type up my experiences at my 20-year high school reunion this weekend. I keep typing partial paragraphs and then not liking them and hitting Delete. So I&#8217;m going to keep this brief: &#8211; One of the high points was running into a girl who, like me in high school, tended &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/2007\/07\/29\/20\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;20&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1131"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1131"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1131\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1131"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1131"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1131"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}<!-- WP Super Cache is installed but broken. The path to wp-cache-phase1.php in wp-content/advanced-cache.php must be fixed! -->