{"id":27555,"date":"2024-02-06T09:30:56","date_gmt":"2024-02-06T15:30:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/?p=27555"},"modified":"2024-02-06T09:30:57","modified_gmt":"2024-02-06T15:30:57","slug":"a-bad-night-but-the-next-day-brought-hope","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/2024\/02\/06\/a-bad-night-but-the-next-day-brought-hope\/","title":{"rendered":"A bad night\u2026 but the next day brought hope"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Sunday I found myself back on the streets with my backpack for the 4th straight night. I\u2019d had maybe 45 minutes sleep total since checking out of the Kings Inn near 240 last Thursday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On nights like Sunday I alternate between waking around Downtown and trying to sleep sitting up on park benches. My sleep attempts are often futile. I just can\u2019t do it if the temperature is below 45 or if it\u2019s a windy night. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As for walking\u2026 there\u2019s a problem with that. I\u2019ve been doing so much of it that my body thinks I should be doing it even when I successfully fall asleep on a park bench. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sunday night\/Monday morning around 2:00, sleepwalker me decided it was time for a stroll. And sleepwalker me apparently decided not to bring my backpack on the stroll. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When I woke up and went back to my starting point, the backpack was gone. <img src=\"http:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/wp-content\/plugins\/classic-smilies\/img\/icon_sad.gif?w=840\" alt=\":(\" class=\"wp-smiley\" style=\"height: 1em; max-height: 1em;\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My MacBook Air was.in there. I was heartbroken. I searched all over but no sign of the backpack. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Other things I needed were in there too, like razors and an official copy of my birth certificate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But my night wasn\u2019t over. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>About 5 in the morning I was standing on the trolley tracks in Court Square. I had my hood up so I could only see straight in front of me. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I sensed someone was standing next to me. I turned my head. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Black male, scraggly gray beard, camouflage jacket, about my height, weight, and age.  I\u2019ve generally had positive experiences with other homeless on the streets of Downtown, so I said, \u201cHey  What\u2019s up.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cBitch, I\u2019m about to kick your ass,\u201d he responded. Well., I guess this wasn\u2019t going to be one of those positive interactions. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He backed up a step and kicked me right in the shin. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cRUN, motherfucker!\u201d he said. He kicked me in the shin again. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I turned my back to get away from him. He kicked me in the butt. I went down but got right back up. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cRUN, motherfucker!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then he kicked me in the groin. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At this point a MATA supervisor in a white pickup truck pulled up and ordered him to get away from me or she\u2019d call the police. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So I lost my most valuable possession and got assaulted, all in one night. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>About noon I walked to the MPD North Precinct. They told me they couldn\u2019t take a missing property report for my MacBook. At least there was one bright spot\u2026 i stopped at Westy\u2019s on the way back and my server Miss Barbara remembered me from Mike\u2019s (1980s-2005 restaurant that was the predecessor to Bardog).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Meanwhile my friend Allison (Butt. Slut #1) sent me a link about all the things a night at the Union Mission offers: a warm bed for the night, an escape from the streets, a shower, a fresh change of clothes. In the afternoons they have something called the Opportunity Center. On Mondays they have medical staff there. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>About 5 I walked up to the mission. After some intake paperwork and some background checks to make sure i wasn\u2019t a rapist or several other horrible things, they admitted me and gave me a ticket for a bed in a large men\u2019s dorm. They told me to go straight to the dining hall where dinner was being served. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/img_1352.jpg?resize=375%2C500\" class=\"wp-image-27554\" srcset=\"http:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/img_1352.jpg?resize=375%2C500 375w, http:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/img_1352.jpg?resize=225%2C300 225w, http:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/img_1352.jpg?resize=1152%2C1536 1152w, http:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/img_1352.jpg?resize=1200%2C1600 1200w, http:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/img_1352.jpg?w=1500 1500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 375px) 85vw, 375px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">My dinner: chicken stew, SpaghettiOs. greens, lemon meringue pie<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>After dinner we had a chapel service. Then there was a signup for a shower and fresh change of clothes. I was dead tired and didn\u2019t understand the signup process, so I didn\u2019t get a shower, but that\u2019s okay. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They had big screen TVs with NBA basketball on, but the only thing I cared about was finding my bed and getting in it. I wondered if I\u2019d have difficulty falling asleep with all those other men around, but it turned out not to be a problem. I slept like a rock. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They woke us at 6 in the morning for breakfast. I\u2019m not a big breakfast person so I just had a donut. They had breakfast burritos as well<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I was very impressed with the Mission. No man has to go hungry, sleepy, unclothed thanks to them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Since it was my first time, they gave me the night for free. Normally it is free if you check in before 2 pm and $6 if you check in 2-7 pm<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019m going back today before 2. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Excited to discover this valuable resource <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I miss my MacBook though. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Readers\u2019 generosity helps keep this blog afloat. Donations:<\/strong><br \/>Venmo: @Paul-Ryburn<br \/>Apple Pay: paul.ryburn@gmail.com<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sunday I found myself back on the streets with my backpack for the 4th straight night. I\u2019d had maybe 45 minutes sleep total since checking out of the Kings Inn near 240 last Thursday. On nights like Sunday I alternate between waking around Downtown and trying to sleep sitting up on park benches. My sleep &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/2024\/02\/06\/a-bad-night-but-the-next-day-brought-hope\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;A bad night\u2026 but the next day brought hope&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27555"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27555"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27555\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":27556,"href":"http:\/\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27555\/revisions\/27556"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27555"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27555"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.paulryburn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27555"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}<!-- WP Super Cache is installed but broken. 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