Singles scene in Memphis: Any ideas for this blog reader?

This morning I received an e-mail asking about the singles scene in Memphis.

Being a native Memphian (not to be confused with a native, residing in Mempho), I am ashamed to admit my bumfuzzlement at a particular situation for which I need your assisstance, Oh great wise and well-traveled one. Where does a late 40ish single woman go to meet single men. Now keep in mind these men cannot wear hairspray or have a swoop-over hair do. This particular lady has been single for nine years and is ready to go out and have some fun. I know there s fun to be had in Memphis, but have been unable to to locate it.
Your help in this matter would be greatly appreciated.

Signed,
Native Memphian

Not sure what to tell her… the environments in which I hang out tend to be full of people in mostly their 20s and 30s, so they probably wouldn’t be the best places to recommend to her. The one thing I can think of would be the Thursday night Madison Hotel rooftop parties, but they don’t start up again until April.

Any ideas for her? E-mail them to me and I’ll forward them on to her, and post them here in a followup.